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Naru(mi) in Seoul: Round II

My best friend from Japan came to Seoul this past weekend to hang-out together. I have the coolest friends!


Narumi was only in town for 48 hours due to her work schedule. Every year since we have met, one of us has traveled to see the other and for next year Narumi wants to meet in Singapore. I suggested NYC so only time will tell.^^

Narumi and her friend Chinami stayed at my apartment for two nights. As is tradition when a Japanese person visits someone when traveling, they bought me many presents from Japan. Thanks Narumi and Narumi's mom^^

I picked up Narumi at the airport around noon on Sunday. I was starving so I wanted to grab some food before getting on a train. After I finishing ordering Narumi was already Skyping her parents to tell her she had arrived and I got to say hello to her family, who I've met a few times over the years. Narumi's brother is really into break dancing these days and he is really good. I think I need to go back to Japan and see one of his performances!

Note: because I have the longest arms I was the default cellphone photographer.....


Fresh off the (air) runway!

After meeting up with Chinami (she arrived a day earlier) and bringing their luggage to my place in the pouring rain, we hopped in a cab to Myeongdong. We were supposed to meet up with some other girls but plans changed so we shopped, ate dinner, and took Japanese-style Polaroids.




After Myeongdong we took the subway to Ewha, made a reservation at a princess-themed cafe, and explored around the area.

At Ewha Women's University, the first university in Korea { was founded by American missionaries}

Eventually we made our way to the Princess Diary cafe. At this special kind of cafe, you pay for a drink and then you pay an additional $10-30 to try on a dress and use the props/backgrounds to take pictures for up to one hour. 



First you order something and eat/drink it. Then you change into dresses and you're not allowed to eat or drink anything while you are in the dresses.

Enjoying our peach tea. We all ordered the same thing because it was the cheapest. kkk





Narumi fixing her tiara. :)

No need to get married now...

After our rather exhausting photoshoot, we agreed on getting drinks somewhere. The girls really wanted to go clubbing but on Sunday nights nowhere good was open. I suggested going to Itaewon {an expat neighborhood} and trying an American-style pub, to which Narumi responded "Let's find you an American boyfriend." HAHA. 

So we hopped back on the subway to Noksapyeong and sat out on a patio testing out some new craft beers. 


We were all pretty worn out from all the neighborhood-hopping we did. Being that the Noksapyeong/Itaewon area is a very international neighborhood, practically all the couples walking on the street are mixed {Asian/Western} couples. Narumi asked me if I was going to marry a white guy or an Asian guy... We headed back to my place, got some food to-go from 김밥 전국, and kept the party going for another hour before we all passed out from fatigue.

I made green smoothies for breakfast each day. They really liked them and were taking pictures of all the ingredients as I was putting them into a blender - haha. They said they are gonna make them in Japan! 

Then on Monday after I finished work we walked to a standing BBQ restaurant. I had never heard of this place before but it's very popular among Japanese tourists so we decided to check it out.

Waiting in line outside the restaurant. 

서서갈비!

No seats was an interesting concept. Definitely a local hotspot but we were the only non-Korean people. 


Then we decided to wanted to eat bingsu so I took them to busy cafe street in Hapjeong and told them to pick a cafe. We ended up at one of my favorites. :)

patbingsu!

The girls were going to go clubbing so I pre-gamed with them making some drinks outside of a convenience store. In Korea they have free tables and chairs for you to sit outside at - it's awesome! I saw a Korean newspaper article a while back about fun mixed drinks to make at a convenience store so I finally attempted one. 


Soju- rice liquor, Korean Sprite, and melon-flavored ice cream = SUCCESS!!


I actually saw some students in the convenience store while we were buying the stuff. I made them introduce themselves in English to Chinami hahaha.


We did a lot of stuff in 48 hours! 


Narumi flies back to Sapporo today and Chinami is heading to Los Angeles for two weeks.

来てくれてありがとう Thanks for coming!! See you next year somewhere^^

A night with my Japanese friends

When I was taking a Korean class at Yonsei University, most of my classmates were Japanese. A few weeks into the semester we were playing a game where we had to translate expressions from Chinese, Japanese, and English into Korean. I answered one of the Japanese expressions and everyone responded "애슐리 씨 어떻게 알았어요? (How do you know that?)" Then I told them I was an exchange student in Japan and we grew closer together talking about green tea, Japanese soft ice cream, and Hokkaido food. They all think I am some trilingual American - HAHAHAHA I have them fooled!!

My friend Kanako messaged me on Facebook last week wanting to get together. During our entire semester at Yonsei, I was under the impression that she didn't speak ANY English so I was a little surprised to see long English messages from her pop up in my inbox. She later admitted that she had a dictionary in front of her and was translating everything. I don't know why she didn't just write in Korean....

So cute^^

Kanako has a Korean husband who lived in Japan for 10 years and is fluent in Japanese. These days she is working from home translating Korean restaurant menus into Japanese for tourists. She studied abroad in New Zealand for a year when she was in her early 20s and can still understand quite a bit of English. Kanako is a true trilingual individual!!

We met at 이대역 at 6 for dinner. Kanako always prepares Korean and Japanese food for her husband so she wanted to eat Western-style food with me. I am always down for pasta.. While we were walking around, I heard some girls screaming "OMG ASHLEY!" and it turns out they were some students from the middle school I worked at last year. I believe they are 7th graders now and what they were doing so far away from school at that hour, I'm not sure.. But they were some of my best students and are very proficient in English. They were very surprised about my recent haircut and we talked for about 2 minutes on the streets about what teachers are still at the school and I told them I was leaving Korea next month. Kanako was really impressed and said she thought the students were really respectful towards me and that I was a "real teacher." 

I'm not sure giving your teacher bunny ears is considered respectful..

Kanako treated me to a nice Italian dinner. 카나코씨 정말 감사합니다!


Then we walked around for a bit window shopping and decided to head to a Hello Kitty Cafe. 


The bathroom entrance was so cute. Hello Kitty + a violin - OH MY GOSH!!


We ordered cute lattes. Normally when you order they just give you a random latte art design but I told the cashier I really loved HK so she let me pick. Score!! On our way out of the cafe, Kanako bought me a Hello Kitty cake. :) We took it to go to meet up with our other Japanese friends, who are still studying at Yonsei and had class until 9.


We met up with Hideyuki and Takuko at the Paris Baguette near the back gate of Yonsei. Hideyuki is a Japanese diplomat and Takuko is also married to a Korean man. Takuko spent 3 years in Virginia for her husband's job so she understands my American identity and sense of humor. It's so rare to find a Japanese person familiar with Western culture. Takuko is an awesome older Japanese woman!



Kanako - Hideyuki - me - Takuko


We ate and enjoyed the cute cake together and sat around talking about Japanese food, the Asiana plane crash, and how the heck am I going to adapt to American culture when I get home.

Kanako was so sweet to organize this little get-together for me. Walking out of the HK cafe last night, we commiserated on how emotional it is to be leaving a country. Being neither super sad to leave Korea or super happy to be heading back to the States, "emotional" sums it up pretty well. 

I promised my friends I would contact them if I ever return to Japan for travel one day (let's face it, I will!). I hope we meet again some day. <3

どうもありがとうございます!私はいつかまた会えることを願って!

D-50

Eeeep! I have less than 50 days left in the Hermit Kingdom (otherwise known as South Korea) not including my 9-day trip to Cambodia. I have lots of fun stuff coming up to wrap up my time here and then I will be meeting up with my sister and Mom in Minneapolis for a fun couple of days in the city. As I am writing this, it is POURING outside and it was pouring all throughout the night - yay for monsoon season.

I've got a few fun/exciting things in the works for the rest of July
  • Meeting my Japanese friends from Yonsei's Korean class for a farewell party
  • Taking the final exam I need to quality to sit for the CPA exam and mailing off my CPA exam application this week
  • Narumi, my best friend from Japan, is flying out to Seoul on Sunday
  • the English department at my school is going on an overnight mountain trip next weekend
  • Going to a book club meeting with Andrei Lankov, a really famous Russian North Korean scholar
  • Going to go see my first 4D movie with my Korean tutor Eunha
  • Taking an intensive coffee roasting & hand-dripping class at a cafe in Bucheon (a suburb of Seoul)
  • Teaching a 2-week globalization camp during which I don't have to be into work until noon. Total +++++
  • Buying an iPad mini and getting my name engraved in Korean {애슐리}
Already bought this vintage mint iPad case/clutch^^ 
Wanna buy cool Korean tech products from the States? - here's a good website.

My flight schedule for August: Seoul --- Phnom Penh --- Seoul --- Toronto --- Minneapolis

VIVA LA ADVENTURE!


4th of July

Yesterday was the Fourth of July, which was my third time celebrating it overseas. I had an accounting exam in the morning, went to a hospital to get a travel vaccination for Cambodia, vegged on takeout while watching a K-drama episode, met a friend for coffee, and had a sleepover @ Justine's with Lauren. It was a rather busy day off^^

There are moments living abroad when I feel as though I am behaving super-American or feel proud about my country and those tiny little moments mean more to me than being back in the States to celebrate it with a fireworks display somewhere. Here I feel really American when I am having coffee with a Korean girlfriend who hates her job and tell her she doesn't have to put up with it (very un-Korean thinking) or when I am showing a movie to my Global English class and we discuss diversity and social issues in the U.S.A. Living as a foreigner in a very homogeneous culture means I'm aware of my nationality every day. Trust me, I appreciate my American passport despite the fact that I haven't seen American soil in a long time. Go America!!


8 am accounting exam.


12 pm bibimbap, bubble tea, and an episode of a Korean drama


6 pm coffee with Eunha.


7:30 pm bus to Justine's (it was POURING outside)


9 pm wine and nails.


Thanks for the manicure, Justine^^

Next 4th of July I wanna be in the Badlands or Montana soaking up all awesome-ness of the Old West, which is real America if you ask me!

A Meditation Retreat with Sewon

Last weekend I went to a meditation retreat with my Korean friend Sewon. We met a little over a year ago through Stephany and have been friends since. Sewon speaks English very well and is always full of energy. She works as a headhunter in the finance industry and it's always interesting to hear about her recent placements and candidate interviews. A few weeks ago riding the subway home late at night from a baseball game, we talked about spending a weekend together before I left. Sewon is a regular meditator and suggested going to a meditation retreat that she has been to several times. It sounded like an interesting endeavor to me so I quickly agreed.

We later decided on a date to go and although I have an accounting exam coming up this week, I left my books in Seoul and headed out to Gyeonggi-do to get a little Zen.






The whole program was conducted in Korean. It was fairly easy to follow most things until more abstract topics were brought up, at which point Sewon translated for me.

Thanks Sewon for showing me a piece of your life in Korea!